So, I have this guy friend, he's been having issues dealing with a bunch of thins. Yes, I know what your thinking, a guy! Confidence is an issue for everyone, even if you can't tell or notice it. My friend wants someone (a girl) who will be there, care, and help him become more confident. The worst part of this is that because he wants someone so bad, he "falls" for girls quickly causing him more pain, hurt, and every time he becomes less confident. What he doesn't realize is that he doesn't need some girl to make him more confident, it's in him. All of this has caused so much crap in his life. All he needs to know is that people love him, and that he is amazing. He doesn't need some girl to be happy and confident. He need to realize that he is never alone. No one is ever alone. "Your not alone, there is more to this I know. You will make it out, you will live to tell." That's just an exert from a song called Your Not Alone by Soasin. It's a great song, take a listen. and realize, you are NEVER ALONE!
Saturday, November 6, 2010
We all have times when we wonder why we were born, what our purpose is. We've all been brought to this world, brought to life by one amazing indescribable, God. God brought us all onto this earth with a plan, for all of us. We were born because he wanted us. We are wanted, we are needed, we are loved, we are cared for, we have everything we need, everything we long for. We just tend to stop ourselves from believing. We stop ourselves from feeling them. We need to open up and allow ourselves to feel it, allow ourselves to believe it. We all have a purpose, we all have a reason.
I really like this Youtube video, it touches on like everything. It makes you think, and makes you feel good. I like to listen to it just to allow myself to open up and feel that I'm wanted, needed, loved, cared for, and have a purpose. Take a listen to it.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
After a recent breakup, I have had an awakening. Being with a guy made me feel confident, wanted, needed, and special. Now that he's gone, were did it go? Did it just disappear like him? For the longest time, I thought and felt it did. No! It's still here inside of me, in me, me! I just have to find it. Being a girl having guys like us and notice us gives us confidence, but when we don't we seem to lose that. We don't need to rely on guys to make us feel good. We have ourselves and each other. "It's a mans world, but it would be nothing without women." As women we need to realize this, we are all strong, confident and independent. Welcome and join me to a journey into a world of self-reliance.