Making out, fooling around, sex, what's the meaning? So often now-a-days, we tend to think that all this comes with a relationship, with dating. Why? Why do we do that? We are young and so often we just throw ourselves out there to do these things, and with that we just get hurt and broken down. Doing these things won't make him/her love you, they won't make him/her stay. So what's the meaning? Why do we do these things? Dating, or being in a relationship to me is finding someone you can enjoy being with, making memories, having fun times, sharing, talking, having someone close to you. Sure later on in life when you know you want to be with that person for the rest of your life, those things are just acts of loving, but at our age, why? We don't know for sure we love that person, we don't know for sure we want to be with them for the rest of our lives. We are young, we are learning about life, we are learning what we want, but right now we don't. When dating someone I don't want someone who will constantly touch me, kiss me, or hold me. I'm an independent woman, sure every once in a while, but right now I don't need that one person, so I don't need to constantly be constantly by my side. Showing affection is nice, but isn't words better than actions, I would thinks more, it's harder to speak then to do. Simple words like I care, or I like you, should mean more than some actions. We just have to remember that we are young, we are going to make mistake, we are going to learn, we will find what we want, but for now we don't. So, just enjoy life, and don't push into things that you are not yet ready for.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
So, You know that thing, that thing that you love to do. That thing that you would do anytime, anyplace, with anyone no matter what. Yeah, I love that thing. I have two of those things, one would happen to be figure skating and the other would be singing. What's yours? You know, these things, are the things that keep me sane sometimes. Whenever I'm upset, confused, stressed, or in any negative mood, I like to sing, or go out and skate. These things, make me happy, they are what I love to do. Everyone should at least have one, and if you don't I suggest you find one, because let me be the first to say, they are a life saver! Everyone has there moments and sometimes you don't know how to deal with them. Some people like to think that having alone time is always the answer. Sure, being alone gives you time to think, but sometimes you just need to get up and go do the thing you love the most, cause I can guarantee you, by the time you are done, your mood will have changed. Plus, you mind will be clear, filled with positive thoughts, and you'll be ready to take on things. It's like having a break, or going to confession, it clears away the negative and brings in positive so that you can think more clearly. I love my things, figure skating and singing, they make me happy. I hope you have things you love to do too, if not my challenge to you is to go out and find something.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
So, let me be the first to say, where the heck did Christmas go!? Aha, It went by so fast! I hope everyone had an amazing Christmas. I hope you guys enjoyed you family, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, and most of all enjoyed yourself. I hope everyone felt the love, and happiness that everyone should feel. Notice I am not saying I hope everyone got the presents they wanted, cause you know what, as much as a lot of people may think that's what Christmas is about, that is not what Christmas is about. Christmas is about being with your family, sharing joy, love, and celebrating the birth of Jesus. Jesus, the son of God who gave his life for us, to make sure our sins were forgiven. Our lives are the way they are because of Jesus, we are so lucky to have what we have, and I hope this Christmas you have realized that. Next year, when Christmas come, remember to say Merry Christmas, not Happy Holidays, cause we need to let people know it's Christs day, so Merry CHRISTmas, not happy holidays. So once again, I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas, remember to share your joy and love, with your loved ones.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
So, We've had like how many snowdays now? Like 6? Crazy! So I thought I'd just put up some videos I like.
The first one is from The Sister Act 2. If you wanna be somebody. Tis short.
The 2nd one is from August Rush, Raise It Up. The little girl has an amazing voice.
I hope you guys enjoy your snowdays.
God gives us a "dessert plate" full of options. We are spoiled rotten by his love and him giving us one another.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Rejection, is probably the most hurt for our confidence. Why do we always build ourselves up for rejection and not acceptance? Rejection, comes so often that sometimes we just don't even notice it, we push it aside, but deep down it does get to us, every time. Every time we get rejected we shove it away in a tiny little corner in our brains, those rejections build up and that corner gets overfilled. That overfilled corner burst and all these rejections come flying into our head, and lets face it, say "Goodbye" to our confidence. This happens so often to everyone. What we don't realize is that the only reason this hurts us so much is because we always focus on the negative. Why do we do that?! It just makes everything harder on us. For some reason we've learnt that taking the negative out of everything is easier than taking the positive out of everything. BUT, we don't have to live like that. All we have to do is a simple mind switch, from negative to positive. We are free to feed our mind what we want, our only battle is the switch. It like a recipe, the recipe will taste the way you make it, your mind is the same way. Our mind will be what we put into it, negative thought, negative mindset, positive thoughts, positive mindset. The switch sounds so easy but it isn't, taking small steps is the best way, try to focus on the positive and feed your mind with excellence. Slowly change the thoughts you think to positive thoughts. Evil will try to fatten your mind with negative, but you can stop that fattening and put rich, pure positive thoughts into your mind. You can make the switch, all you have to do is focus on the positives and feed your mind with excellence.
2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
So, I have this guy friend, he's been having issues dealing with a bunch of thins. Yes, I know what your thinking, a guy! Confidence is an issue for everyone, even if you can't tell or notice it. My friend wants someone (a girl) who will be there, care, and help him become more confident. The worst part of this is that because he wants someone so bad, he "falls" for girls quickly causing him more pain, hurt, and every time he becomes less confident. What he doesn't realize is that he doesn't need some girl to make him more confident, it's in him. All of this has caused so much crap in his life. All he needs to know is that people love him, and that he is amazing. He doesn't need some girl to be happy and confident. He need to realize that he is never alone. No one is ever alone. "Your not alone, there is more to this I know. You will make it out, you will live to tell." That's just an exert from a song called Your Not Alone by Soasin. It's a great song, take a listen. and realize, you are NEVER ALONE!
Saturday, November 6, 2010
We all have times when we wonder why we were born, what our purpose is. We've all been brought to this world, brought to life by one amazing indescribable, God. God brought us all onto this earth with a plan, for all of us. We were born because he wanted us. We are wanted, we are needed, we are loved, we are cared for, we have everything we need, everything we long for. We just tend to stop ourselves from believing. We stop ourselves from feeling them. We need to open up and allow ourselves to feel it, allow ourselves to believe it. We all have a purpose, we all have a reason.
I really like this Youtube video, it touches on like everything. It makes you think, and makes you feel good. I like to listen to it just to allow myself to open up and feel that I'm wanted, needed, loved, cared for, and have a purpose. Take a listen to it.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
After a recent breakup, I have had an awakening. Being with a guy made me feel confident, wanted, needed, and special. Now that he's gone, were did it go? Did it just disappear like him? For the longest time, I thought and felt it did. No! It's still here inside of me, in me, me! I just have to find it. Being a girl having guys like us and notice us gives us confidence, but when we don't we seem to lose that. We don't need to rely on guys to make us feel good. We have ourselves and each other. "It's a mans world, but it would be nothing without women." As women we need to realize this, we are all strong, confident and independent. Welcome and join me to a journey into a world of self-reliance.